Thanksgiving: A Surprising Solution to Getting Unstuck
Thanksgiving is the time of year that most of us busy Americans get to push the Pause button on our lives and relax with friends or family. It’s supposed to be the time we reflect on how fortunate we are for the people around us, the food inside of us, and the “stuff” in front of us, every day. We
The Savings Account Students Need to Launch a Great Career: Podcast #31
Today, I’m honored to share a conversation I had with Jon Acuff. Jon is a renowned author and speaker, who spent years working under Dave Ramsey before he decided to work for himself. Recently, we discussed his new book Do Over, where he shares about the transition out of his dream job with Dave Ramsey. I hope you enjoy it
The Science Behind Effective Coaching
I recently finished watching video coverage of the last batch of inductees into the Baseball Hall of Fame. It prompted me to watch even more footage from the last three years of inductees. I focused my attention on the managers who were given an honor representing the pinnacle of their career. The last three managers inducted into the HOF used
Speaking into a Student’s Life
I recently received a letter from a former student, dating back to 1988. He’s now in mid-life and is a husband and father to three kids. He wrote me, however, because he wanted to say thanks for a conversation we had when he was a college sophomore. I’m sure you’ve received notes like this one. In the end, his message
How to Handle Troubled Students
Yesterday, I blogged about wise leaders who find the right words to say in conversations with students. I suggested a simple formula at the end: The right word is about using the right term at the right time with the right team. Today, I’d like to dig deeper on this topic and suggest practical ideas on how to leverage the right words
Finding the Right Words to Say to Students
Every day, teachers, coaches, counselors and parents enter their new day prepared to speak certain words to the students they’ll encounter. Knowing we’ll likely meet up with some “attitudes” in the hallways or the classroom, we rehearse specific thoughts in our minds and sometimes even have those conversations ahead of time on our drive to work. Today—I’d like to talk about
Why Students Need Authentic Leaders
Last month, kids across America celebrated Halloween by wearing masks and walking around their communities, hoping to get treats for their great costumes. It’s a tradition almost all of us enjoyed during our childhood. But may I be blunt with you? Another version of this tradition happens everyday on your campus. I just read a report on a North Carolina college
What’s Happening to College Students Today?
I have a sad story to tell you. On January 17, 2014, a beautiful, talented student athlete at the University of Pennsylvania jumped off the top of a parking garage and killed herself. No one, not even her close family, saw this coming. Her name was Madison Holleran. She was a freshman at Penn. Perhaps the saddest part is that she
Leadership Lessons We Must Learn from College Students
Have you heard about what’s happening on some university campuses in America. Racial unrest continues to surface, even though it’s 2015. I had just returned from speaking at an event in Missouri when we heard reports that University of Missouri football players refused to practice until their college president resigned. Why? They, along with other African-American students on campus, say they’ve
The First Lesson Leaders Must Learn
Years ago, I spoke to my friend Jeremy Affeldt about leadership. We both concluded we’d seen good and bad leaders during the course of our careers. Jeremy told me he saw good leadership modeled when he played minor league baseball. One season, a major league player was injured, and part of his rehabilitation was playing some games on Jeremy’s Triple A
The Lessons We Can Learn from Great Athletes
I love it when I get opportunities to meet and converse with interesting people. About a year ago, I was preparing to speak at a conference, and at my table, I met a fellow presenter who’s now become a good friend. He’s a well-known business and leadership coach named Don Yaeger, who utilizes the lessons he garners from his conversations
The Fine Line Between Drifting and Making Progress
I was entertained last month when I met with a first-year faculty member and a seasoned veteran, who had taught for forty-two years at the university. It was like watching the History channel and the Future channel simultaneously (you might say I had tuned into The Jetsons and The Flintstones at the same time!) During our meeting, the veteran kept reminding
One Great Lesson Every Leader Can Learn from the KC Royals
Last night the Kansas City Royals won their first World Series in thirty years. Ponder that reality for a moment. Many of the fans cheering them on weren’t even alive in 1985, the last time they won it all. This team is young and talented and in many ways, went against the grain of modern day professional baseball. In a day of