Why Students Choose Toxic Relationships
Follow @TimElmore Do any of these scenarios sound familiar? A high school female continues to date abusive males. A college male hangs around friends who get him into trouble. Smart adolescents keep returning to the same old social groups that are going nowhere, that don’t push them to grow or mature. I think every teacher, coach, youth worker or parent has mourned a young person
Major Leaders Who Missed the Point of Vision
Follow @TimElmore It’s hard to separate good leadership from clear vision. The two just go together. If you were building a house, your vision would be the blueprint. If you were shooting arrows, vision would be the target. If you were a soldier in a war, vision would be your plan of attack (it’s arguably more important than your weapon). Vision
Preparing a Young Professional for Work
Another batch of college graduates just finished their degrees this past December—and are now in a job hunt. Sadly, many have lost hope of actually launching a career right away. Millions of them are loaded with potential—but no one has equipped them to close the gap between potential and performance. So what can you do about that? Before I answer that
Six Habits of Lasting Leaders
Follow @TimElmore I had an 18-year old student tell me last month that he had benefited greatly from our Habitudes® books and videos. But after discussing the original four book series, he had a question, “What are the attitudes and habits of leaders who last for the long haul? What do leaders do that enables them to finish well?” I felt our next 30 minute
Rebelling Against Low Expectations
Follow @TimElmore Five years ago, I read a book by two teenagers named Alex and Brett Harris. Maybe you read it too—it was called Do Hard Things. It challenged their peers to not settle into the lifestyle of a typical high school or college student, getting lost in selfies, video games, Facebook updates and narcissism. They gave credence to the idea
My Favorite Reads from 2014
Follow @TimElmore Each year, I post a blog containing some of my favorite books I read from the previous year. My list from 2014 is below. These do not represent all the books I read.
The Freshman Year of Their Career
Wallace, an employer of hundreds of recent college graduates, startled me with a decision he recently made. He told me, “I’m no longer hiring fresh graduates out of college. I will either require them to have two years of work experience outside of school, or some type of experience in at least one other job. If that doesn’t work, I will
Three Truths About Life as a Sport
Follow @TimElmore Every one of us has heard stories of someone who overcame the odds and reached a goal they should not have been able to accomplish. They inspire us. Not long ago, I shared the platform with Erik Weihenmayer, one of the rare people who reached the summit of Mount Everest. His story is extra sweet because he did so completely
Leading Without Titles
Our nation was built by mavericks. It was constructed off the backs and brains of pioneers and entrepreneurs who didn’t wait for someone else to go first. Think of inventors like Thomas Edison or Henry Ford. Think of pioneers like Rufus Putnam or Davy Crockett. In fact, when asked about the early pioneers who settled America, President George Washington stated,
7 Steps to Guide Students’ Dissatisfaction into Positive Action
The day that inspired Walt Disney to create a theme park has been told over and over again. Walt was spending that day with his two young daughters at an amusement park. At one point, his girls wanted to ride the merry go round. As Walt lifted Diane and Sharon onto the ride, he noticed how shabby the horses looked.
Five Early Predictors of Leadership Skills (Part Two)
Follow @TimElmore Yesterday, I blogged about the traits you can spot in students—even at a young age—that can be predictors of future leadership qualities. I believe there are at least five of these early traits, and they spell the word PRIDE. A Different Kind of PRIDE I believe authentic leaders possess a different kind of pride. It constitutes a set of qualities in
Five Early Predictors of Leadership Skills (Part One)
Follow @TimElmore About this time of year, we hear predictions from everyone: gurus make their conjectures for the New Year; financial analysts forecast what the economy will do; and our friendly weathermen makes predictions about how harsh winter will be. These expectations are all based on studies of current realities that analysts believe will create trajectories. In other words, certain elements we
The One Thing I Do at the Beginning of Each Year
Follow @TimElmore Yesterday, I blogged about a ritual I perform at the end of every year, for the last twenty-nine years. Today, I will share with you a second ritual I do, as a follow up. It enables me to enter a new year “on purpose.” After I invest a morning reviewing the previous year, I spend the second half of