A Cry for Parental Health
Follow @TimElmore I met a young lady who’s going through what her therapist calls a “quarter-life crisis.” Yep, you read that right. Not a mid-life crisis, but a quarter-life crisis. She’s twenty-five years old and seeing a counselor for depression and disillusionment. I write about her because she’s the fifth young adult I’ve met in the last six months who’s been
Always Play Like the Underdog
This time of year always brings surprises. I'm not speaking of the trees changing color or the crisp weather sneaking up on us in October; I'm talking about great teams getting upset. In both professional and college sports, we see upsets on a regular basis. Defined simply, an upset occurs when a more talented team loses to a less talented
How Stress Disables Empathy in Students
Follow @TimElmore You probably remember the experiment that was conducted among university students in 1978. The experiment was constructed by Darley and Batson to study altruistic behavior, and the way they did this was by testing the possible facts behind the story of the Good Samaritan. The variables to be tested were the relative haste of the participant and how occupied their
The State of Students Today: An Interview with Dr. Jean Twenge
Recently I had the honor and privilege to talk with Dr. Jean Twenge on the Growing Leaders podcast. She is is a widely published professor of psychology at San Diego State University, the author of Generation Me, and the co-author ofThe Narcissism Epidemic. Her research has been featured or quoted in Time, USA Today,New York Times, The Washington Post, and other major media. She has appeared on Today, Good
Why Trust is Plummeting Among Students… and Six Ways to Stop It
I just had a conversation with a twenty-eight-year-old about getting out to vote next month in the mid-term elections. He didn’t plan to make the effort, as he didn’t feel it made any difference. When I reminded him that he was the one kicking everyone’s butt to vote a decade ago, he mumbled, “That was then. This is now.” Not
A Leadership Lesson From the 2014 World Series Teams
Follow @TimElmore I’m not sure if you have a dog in the fight. Maybe you’re from New York or Boston. You may be from L.A. or St. Louis or Detroit and feel like you got jipped out of seeing your team play in this year’s World Series, which starts tonight. The Giants and Royals Share Something in Common I do know one thing.
A Crucial Question Colleges Should Ask Students
Follow @TimElmore Here’s a question both high school and college students are wondering about. For that matter, so are their parents, who might end up paying for their student’s higher education degree. For educators, you likely think about this problem often. Put simply, the question goes something like this: Does our current system of courses and majors meet the needs of today’s
Four Ideas to Help Colleges Become Relevant Again
I am constantly asking the question: How can we help those in education really equip students for life? It’s actually the broader question of a yearlong exercise at Stanford University’s Hasso Plattner Institute of Design, also known as the d.school. May I remind you of our current reality within the field of education? Students, parents and employers are all asking if
Eight Lessons About Leading Kids From Derek Jeter’s Dad
Follow @TimElmore The sports world was consumed this summer with Derek Jeter’s farewell to the New York Yankees (and baseball fans everywhere). He got applause from every ballpark because Jeter played the game with class. He ended his career at Yankee stadium with a walk-off single that won the game. He worked hard, kept a great attitude, was a great teammate,
The Secret to Remember Critical Information
When I was a freshman in college, I remember taking a Jerry Lucas course on memory. It was designed to increase one’s ability to remember—and I ended up memorizing an entire book that year. The Lucas system is all about association: connecting funny pictures to ideas so that they stick in your mind. It’s quite effective, especially if you continue
One Sign Every Parent Should Read
Follow @TimElmore While some look for signs in the sky, we parents should start reading the ones posted on sports complexes at schools…
How to Avoid Ruining a Kid’s Future
Follow @TimElmore You’d think parents would have read and heard enough about “helicopters” and “snowplows” (parenting styles) by now that they would have backed off of their kids a little. But, alas, some are getting worse. I continue to hear of parents who move into the apartment with their freshman daughter, call the college president when their child has a squabble
Six Millennial Statistics Every Adult Should Know
Follow @TimElmore From time to time, I enjoy providing statistics on the emerging generation of young adults often called Millennials (or Generation iY). This demographic is proving to be different in several ways from previous young adult populations. We’ve demonstrated that the second half of this generation — those born since 1990 — is even different from the first half, born
The Birth and Death of Entitlement in Students
Follow @TimElmore It’s not a new topic. Almost everyone I speak to agrees that American students in today’s middle class are just a tad bit spoiled. They act “entitled,” say school principals, faculty, deans and athletic coaches. In fact, the term “entitled” is the number one word employers use to describe recent graduates on the job. Step back and reflect for a