Happy Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving! Just a note to those who stay in touch with me, and our team at Growing Leaders. We believe one of the highest virtues we can impart to the next generation is an attitude of gratitude. To be thankful is vital because gratitude always brings with it: Perspective (as we see others have played a role in our lives) Hope (as we
America’s Most Inspiring Companies
Terry Barber is one of my dear friends. For years, he has worked in conjunction with Forbes magazine to research and publish America’s Most Inspiring Companies on an annual basis. He writes about this year’s findings below. We are proud to announce that our research for 2013 America’s Most Inspiring Companies was recently published in Forbes Magazine. If you haven’t seen it
Two Ways Students Earn the Right to Influence
I just read a story about a young student who decided to stop complaining about problems and start solving them. It all began when 11-year old Peyton Robertson watched Superstorm Sandy wreak havoc across the U.S. coastline. He was intrigued at how the sandbags weren’t efficient to stop the flooding. The sand couldn’t stop the water from penetrating. So what
What Today’s Parenting Shift Means to Educators and Employers
I’ve been writing for years about the shift in parent-styles that’s taken place over the last few decades. Growing up today looks very different than it did when I was a kid. It began in the 1980s with the Tylenol scare, and photos of missing children on milk cartons. Since then we’ve watched reports of school accidents and shootings. This
Which Leadership Approach Are You Taking Today?
In a day marked by scarcity in our minds and pocketbooks, I see leaders taking one of three approaches to running point in their organizations. Whether you’re a CEO in a company, a coach on a sports team, a dean at a university or a pastor of a church, it’s wise to diagnose how you approach each day on the
A Lesson in Maturity that Adults Can Learn from Students
As the NFL is figuring out how to deal with the issue of bullying in the Miami Dolphins locker room, a middle school football team in Michigan has a more profound understanding of the game that professionals may never reach. The Eagles football team, from Olivet Middle School in Olivet, Michigan, decided to run a play and deliberately not score, all
Young Employees Get a Slow Start on a Career…and What It Means
As students graduate from high school or college—they’re getting a later start in their career. In response, moms and dads are welcoming their kids back home, to help them experience a safe haven as they seek out a steady income. Many find jobs, but they don’t actually start careers—until eight years later. This has far-reaching impact on these young workers. Recent
F in Exams: The Most Hilarious Answers Students Put on Tests
Because so many who read my blogs are educators, I thought you might enjoy this list of actual answers that students gave on school exams. The answers were from middle school, high school and college students—and while they may spark a chuckle from you, they may not spark hope. Enjoy… 1. Biology class: Name six animals that live specifically in the
Responding to the Rise of Depression in College Athletes
A new study indicates that college athletes may be put at an increased risk for depression today, far more than earlier generations. The study, published by Sports Health was conducted at the Georgetown University Medical Center, revealed that depressions levels were twice as high in current athletes compared to former college athletes from years ago. Lead researcher, Daniel Merenstein, M.D., and
Podcast #17: An Interview with Carol Dweck on Motivating & Affirming Students
Carol S. Dweck, Ph. D., is one of the world’s leading researchers in the field of motivation and is the Lewis and Virginia Eaton Professor of Psychology at Stanford University. Her book Mindset is based on the truly groundbreaking idea that achievement and success can come from our mindset. She has spoken to many adults (faculty, parents and coaches) on
Helping Millennial Men Prioritize Family vs. Work
The Harvard Business Review just published a piece about young males and work. It may not come as a shock to you—but these guys seemed to have learned a lesson from their Boomer parents who might have been workoholics: work should be a “guide” to your identity but not a god. Here is the summary: For males, working more than 50
Five Tips for Teaching Your Children Self Control
Today’s blog is a guest post from Erica Fener, who shares some tips for building discipline into young people. I hope you enjoy it. Erica—you work with students of all kinds, in addition to your own children. Talk to us about how teachers, coaches and parents can cultivate self-control in kids. Give us some strategies that could work with kids of
Why Do Adults Struggle Leading Teens Well?
May I share an observation with you? In my travels, I meet a variety of parents, educators, coaches and youth workers who lead kids differently. Often, one of two extremes occurs, depending on the students’ age. In their early years, it seems as if tens of thousands of parents and teachers “over-program” the children’s day, structuring it so tightly that
Three Ways Leaders Reinvent Their World
Today’s blog is a guest post by Mark Miller. Mark is not only a good friend, but an excellent leader and best-selling author. I believe you’ll enjoy the article below. As you think about your childhood, can you remember going by car to some exciting destination? Okay, maybe it wasn’t exciting, but you were in the car and you asked the
Three Corrections to Make If Your Kids Go Astray
Let’s face it. Even the best teachers have students that don’t engage in class and fail. Even the best parents have children that don’t follow their example. Even the best coaches have young players that make poor decisions and disqualify themselves. According to nationwide research, when engaged parents see their kids are turning out poorly, the topic of arguments shifts from
Helping Students Find Their Way in Life
One of the chief challenges for young adults today is choosing a career. Millions are struggling to determine which path to take; what “mission” to pursue.
Bullying in the NFL: It’s a Leadership Issue
You may have heard the story on the news over the weekend. Jonathan Martin, of the Miami Dolphins, just quit the team. It wasn’t because he wasn’t good enough to play professional football. It was due to….well, uh…bullying from teammates. Are you kidding me? Are these guys adults or middle school boys? It’s hard to tell sometimes. Young Dolphins players are put
Evaluating If Your Mission is Healthy or Unhealthy
Last month, I spoke to nine NCAA Division One coaching staffs and their respective athletic teams. On one campus, I conversed with some athletes after my session. Two students shared their “take” on the Habitude I’d taught called, “Rivers and Floods.” It’s all about focus. For one of them, this image motivated him to put up “banks” on his life
A Definition for Bullying
No one would have dreamed of calling our "blowout" losses "bullying." It would have been an insult to real bully incidents that actually went on during the 1970s just like they do now. The difference between then and now is this: the adults in my childhood (from parents, to teachers to coaches to youth workers) all helped us navigate them