Six Reasons Why Developing Young Leaders is So Vital
Since launching our non-profit in 2003, I’ve labored to explain why our mission should also be front and center for every school, business, non-profit and church. Below, I’ve outlined why the task of growing leaders is so vital to the future. These are actually case statements for our purpose, which is to turn ordinary students into growing leaders who will
Leaders Help People See the Bigger Picture
It’s true. A large percentage of foul ups in any organization occur because team members take their eye off the big picture. They get caught up in their own little department or task and fail to see how their work fits into a larger story. Years ago, an executive at Six Flags theme park heard repeated stories of how his staff
A School That Understands EPIC Students
Last week, my teammate Jake and I spent two days on the campus of Louisiana Tech University. I spoke to staff, faculty, administrators, student leaders and K-12 educators from the community. Immediately, I recognized the folks at LA Tech cared deeply about connecting with their Generation iY students. Case in point. I met with the key faculty in the Engineering Department
Parenting for a Trophy Now or Later?
One of the most important questions adults can ask themselves as they work with students is: Am I working for a reward now or later? In his book, Poke the Box, Seth Godin writes about a typical contest that takes place in towns across America every October. Stores in town hold a contest for kids to paint a Halloween picture on
Problems Produce Leaders
In the past I have blogged about the idea that good things can come from bad situations, when those situations force us to do something good we normally wouldn’t do. Whether it’s laziness or lack of motivation, our intentions are better than our actions. Today, we see millions of Americans getting rid of credit card debt and saving money because
How Can My Son or Daughter Be So Confident Yet So Fearful?
Last Saturday, I led a parenting conference held at a great church, Northridge Church in Michigan. The day was full of excited parents, hungry to learn how they can better engage their kids and develop them into the “best version of themselves” as they become teenagers and leave the home. One question came up three times that day—and I want to
Gender Confusion in our Kids
I am blogging all week about the best questions I received last Saturday when I spoke at a parenting conference at Northridge Church, just outside of Detroit. It was a great day of dialogue and the parents were full of insightful questions. Here is another below. Question: "It seems like I am running into more and more tweens and teens who
Are Video Games Bad?
Last Saturday, I was hosted by Northridge Church who held an incredible parenting conference for 550 parents in the Plymouth, Michigan community. I had a blast, hanging out with such engaged moms and dads who want to lead their kids well. This week, I am blogging about the most common questions I was asked that day. Today’s is a big
Building Relationship Skills in a Texting Generation
On Saturday, I spoke at a parent event hosted by Northridge Church in Plymouth, Michigan. I experienced amazing hosts and 550 receptive parents all day long. During the day, I was asked great questions by moms and dads that I plan to blog about this week. The question below came from a woman who is both a mother and a
Video Post: Interview with Coach Kris Hogan
A few weeks ago, a story made its way across America about a small, private school football team in Grapevine, Texas that did something very unusual. They were scheduled to play a juvenile detention center in football, Gainesville State School the next Friday. They knew that those young inmates would have no one cheering for them in the stands, no
Why Bullying is Hot Again and What You Can Do (Re-post)
I have worked with students for thirty years. Idistinctly remember when bullying became a topic of discussion across the American education landscape. It was around 1995, the same time social scientists began to measure bullying on the school campus. The issue of “no bullies” became vogue for a while. Then, for years, it seemed we didn’t hear about it. Now—it’s back
The Problem is Us (A Re-post)
Sometimes I get misunderstand as a guy who’s against kids. Since publishing my latest book, Generation iY—Our Last Chance to Save heir Future, some think I whine about how this generation of students are undisciplined and feel entitled. Actually, this couldn’t be further from the truth. I love this generation of students. But they’re in trouble. More than you may think. According
The Biggest Danger with Students and Schools
We hear folks lament our failing school systems every week. At least I do. My response is always the same—teachers are my biggest heroes but the system we’ve created over time is faltering. Let me unveil one of my biggest concerns which may just be the biggest danger we face in education. Students are cheating to get ahead. This may not
The Top Three Decisions I Made as a Dad
People ask me, almost every time I do a parenting event: what are the top three things you’ve done for your kids as a parent? It’s always a great conversation. I don’t claim to be some sort of parenting guru, but here’s my response to the question. 1. I focused my messages the first five years and last five years
Is Technology Helping or Hurting?
I want to hear from you. This is a question that tens of thousands of people, young and old, are debating today: is technology helping or hurting our relationships? Fact: According to a nationwide survey by RSCG, 50% of Americans say they know someone whose relationship started with on-line interactions. 53% believe on-line is normal or mainstream. Fact: 64% say they believe
A Missing Ingredient as We Teach and Parent Our Kids
A number of years ago, I made a plaque for my mom and dad. They were feeling a bit discouraged and wondered if they’d failed as parents in certain categories. The wall plaque was a framed piece I had written called: “What My Parents Did Right.” Let me share with you one of the many gifts my mom and dad gave
Youth Revolutions: We’ve Only Seen the Beginning
The revolts and protests we’re hearing about every day in the news have a few ingredients in common. Have you noticed them? - They are led by a swelling population of young adults. - They occur when youth have too much time on their hands. - They happen when established leaders don’t know how to lead them. “Young people without jobs, young people who
Building Young Leaders in the Strangest Places
I have been very encouraged over the last five days. Our team, at Growing Leaders, had the privilege of meeting with and/or training leaders in five professional baseball clubs: The Atlanta Braves, The Pittsburgh Pirates, the Kansas City Royals, the San Francisco Giants and the Cleveland Indians. Because I have loved baseball all of my life—I was in hog heaven. But even
Generation Y: What Are They Thinking (Part 4 of 4)
All week, I’ve been blogging about what Generation Y is thinking. Today, I want to wrestle with a paradoxical reality they face every week: their obsession with both authenticity and appearance. Stop and think for a moment. Few would argue that teens today value authenticity. They want to “keep it real.” They love genuine, earthy stories, food, language and entertainment. (Note
Generation Y: What Are They Thinking? (Part 3 of 4)
This week, I’m blogging about what Generation Y is thinking. While no generation wants to be profiled or put in a box, this student generation thinks so much alike when it comes to social issues. You can tell they’re a connected generation, from California to Singapore. Today—I want to talk about a paradoxical reality among Gen Y. While they continue to
Generation Y: What Are They Thinking? (Part 2 of 4)
This week I am blogging about students and their impact on culture. Specifically, I am covering the research we’ve uncovered about what they are thinking. In this blog, I will cover how they plan to influence the world; how they will use their voice. Early Generation Y young adults have been “activists.” They resemble the Baby Boomers back in the 1960s,
An update to one of last week’s blogs…
Last Wednesday, I posted a blog called "I Wish I Had Led My Kids Differently." I was inspired by a blog post by Jim Daly, president of Focus on the Family, since we share similar views on this topic. In my excitement to share with you Jim's thoughts, I regretfully neglected to attribute the sharing of the blog post to
Generation Y: What Are They Thinking? (Part 1 of 4)
The rest of this week, I plan to blog about what’s on the mind of young adults today, the ones from Generation Y (born 1984-2002). In addition to our research with college students, Pew Research and Barna Reports have given us the latest read on this emerging generation and their affect on our culture. If you’re a parent, teacher, coach