10 Slang Terms Teens Use That Adults Should Know

Last fall, ESPN ran a very funny piece on how NCAA football coaches did not understand the slang terms of their players. From Nick Saban to Tom Allen, coaches admitted that the terminology their youth athletes used to communicate was a little like a foreign language to them. Sometimes they said it felt like they needed a translator to explain what both sides were saying.

You may just feel the same way.

Why Do Students Invent and Use Different Terms?

So, why do students feel like they need to use different vocabulary than adults do? To be honest, it was true in my generation back in the 1970s too. Adolescents feel they must invent terms to distinguish themselves from other generations. Kansas State University English professor Mary Kohn says, “Language is a lot like fashion. Teens coin words and slang partly because using their parent’s jargon would be a lot like wearing mom’s jeans. They would come across as old-fashioned and out of touch.”

Still another reason (at least in the past) has been to keep parents in the dark about what’s really happening in their social life. Do you remember when cell phones first became popular? Teens came up with acronyms for text messages like:

  • POTS………Parent Over The Shoulder
  • TAW………Teachers Are Watching
  • LMIRL…….Let’s Meet In Real Life
  • 53X…………Sex
  • CD9…………Code 9 (Parents are around)

These were literally text message code words. Insider language for a generation. They were diminishing for a while, until today.

Now that students have smart phones, they have a whole new way to keep adults in the dark. They worry less about using “codes.” Why? Teens are using social media apps that parents know nothing about or assume their kid would never use. Teens now employ disappearing Snapchat messages and “Finsta”(fake Instagram) accounts without parents stumbling upon them. They have their real identity, and then their fake identity. Often several of them.

Like every emerging generation, today’s students find the need to create their own identity; to acclimate with particular social groups and to differentiate themselves from adults. We did it too—but it had to be “in person” at a party, through the car we drove or within a club or team on campus. Michigan associate professor Scott Campbell focuses on the impact of mobile communication and social networking on media and society. He says, “It boils down to identity. It’s a way of making insiders from outsiders, and certainly if you’re grown up, you’re an outsider.”

In other words, it’s not weird what teens are doing today—they just have a far more complex mechanism and virtual method than we did back in the day.

So What Are Some Terms We Ought to Know?

Truth be told, parents, teachers, coaches, employers usually don’t need to worry about these terms that students use. They’re having fun the way we used to have fun—discovering who we were and what we were about.

I saw this with one caveat.  Some terms can have double meanings.

For instance, teens might send a message and use the term “addy.” Often times, it’s just a simple abbreviated term for “address.” In other cases, however, it’s slang for “Adderall.” This is a drug misused by many high school and college students. It’s prescribed for those who have ADHD, but students frequently get it illegally to help them focus for a test. Over-doses are quite common.

So, what do we need to know to understand students?

A List You Should Know:

When you see your own kid, or a student or an athlete using terms you don’t understand, before you ask them about it, check out the list below, offered by USA Today journalist Jennifer Jolly:

  • Beef = a disagreement or hostility
  • F2F = face to face, meeting in person
  • Juice = credibility, respect, yet also means booze or drugs (check the context)
  • Slide in the DMs = direct messaging someone privately, usually to hook up
  • KMS/KYS = kill myself, kill yourself (often used sarcastically but can be real)
  • Smash = to hook up, have sex
  • Tea = gossip about someone
  • Thirsty = wants attention, and usually from a specific person
  • Throw shade = talking negatively about a person or thing
  • Tweaking = getting high, usually on amphetamines

Obviously, social media is not going away. I believe we owe it to students to equip them to navigate an unlimited world of connections in a healthy way.

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10 Slang Terms Teens Use That Adults Should Know